Author: de-er
•Saturday, October 20, 2007
午饭。

老友说现实生活他们不见部落格中的我。

没想到,老友正从我的文字,勾勒另一个我。

我们五人做了性格分析测验。

理性、系统化、逻辑思考,这是对我的结论。

完全符合从事财务工作的形象,却和文字中的我有所出入。

朋友说,这两个我,相差十万八千里。

太过“个人”,有些 skeptical,朋友这样形容。

我也不知道这两个我,怎能共存一体,或许我早性格分裂。

理性的浪漫,我想我只能形容这样的自己。





得尔

PS:

10 月 21 日
有心的朋友,通过电邮,发了性格分析结果给我:

"TRIM" Character:

Summary Report

You tend to be a very organized, structured, and task-focused individual. You prefer to have a lot of supportive details in the work you do, and you want to get a definite result by a specified deadline, whether working with tasks or people. In fact, you get frustrated if people change directions on you suddenly or don't follow-up with you on a timely basis.

It's important that you have a big-picture vision of a process or task, and you prefer to take minimal risk. Indeed, projects you work on or decisions you make need to offer some guarantee of economic security.

People who are impulsive and illogical in their choices tend to put pressure on you. And you likely feel irritated and take a step or two backward upon encountering a hard-charging salesperson, phone solicitor, or non-profit organization that you feel is trying to manipulate or pressure you into a purchase or donation.

You care about people, but most of the time they do not get your heart or trust until they prove themselves worthy, demonstrate their claims, and support their facts. They also need to follow-up on a timely basis and deliver on their commitments. If they can’t do those things to your satisfaction, you have no trouble saying "no" and setting boundaries on your time, money, and relationships.

In managing your personal finances, you tend to be good with check books and budgets. Having said that, financial planning and working with numbers is not necessarily a fun exercise for you. Rather, it's a necessary task.

Living a healthy lifestyle is important to you, even if you "fall off the wagon" occasionally with a high-fat/high-carb meal. However, your dedication to task and structure place you at risk for workaholism, and you also need to manage your stress when others disappoint you.
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9 comments:

On 20/10/07 10:48 AM , kaywell said...

每个人总在细细分析之下,可以表现之出种种的面目,一个人本身就是复杂的几个性格的组成。

真想可以象佛家里的得道高僧们,只一张慈祥爱脸,一张宽容无边的肃穆。

 
On 20/10/07 6:43 PM , Seekingoals said...

每一个人都有许多副面具,在面对不同人、不同环境的时候,会戴上相应的面具。所以,请放心,相信你应该没有性格分裂,只是你未曾把部落格上的你呈现在你朋友的面前……

更何况我们都有左脑和右脑,自然就都有理性和感性两面啊!

 
On 20/10/07 7:51 PM , chin said...

嘿嘿,這樣的你,是性情中人哦!不是性格分裂哦!也許blog中的你,才是真正的你哦!

 
On 20/10/07 10:25 PM , de-er said...

kaywell, seekinggoals, chin,

或许你们都不认识现实生活的那个“我”,才会这么说吧。

我也说不清,到底哪个是我的真性格,哪个是我的伪性格,哪个又是我的隐性格。

 
On 21/10/07 2:09 PM , Anonymous said...

其实,你们都想太多了吧!
在网络世界,你可以飞天蹲地。也可以是妈妈的爷爷的奶奶,一却在网上,不该把所谓医学原理搬上来一谈的。更何况网络安全措施有待考量,也不便老实的把个人资料爆光。
所以嘛,网上林林总总,大家就此信一半吧。
那句是真心话,你们都是成年人了。不会苯到真伪难辨吧?非常真话,不如你们能咬到对方,知道痛,有感觉时才来证清,那也无伤大雅,也来得及啊,对吗?
表演完毕,请鼓掌,谢谢。
过客---在此一行。

 
On 21/10/07 9:05 PM , kaywell said...

得尔,

也许我们每一个想探究自己的人,都有着如此的迷惑,我们在生活中已经形成一个几乎固定的生活态度,可在内心里有着非常温婉,非常细微的心思与梦想。

而那个外在的东西,可内心里的东西,那个在自己家中表现出来的状态,与工作中的为人方式,还有那个在朋友之中表现出来的自我,又有什么样的关系,又是如何组织出我们的灵魂的呢?

有太多的人有此困惑

 
On 21/10/07 9:43 PM , chin said...

得爾,也許現實中的你,不是真實的你,你想過嗎?哈哈!別困惑了,不管是虛實的網路,還是現實中的你,哪一個是真正的你,都不重要,最重要的是你認真過今天嗎?你相信你今天身旁的人、事、物嗎?如果不相信,那你今天會是疑惑的一天!网路是完全虛擬的話,那麼“過客”的話又哪值得參考呢?你說是不是?

 
On 22/10/07 12:59 PM , Anonymous said...

信者有,不信者無.凡是不能強求.
你說我說网路是完全虛擬的話,那麼“過客”的話又哪值得參考呢?你說是不是?
很多事,是不能沉迷,一但沉迷虛擬世界,在也無法自拔.受傷的人.是誰?誰真誰假,那句話,
過客是真,那句話是假,你說過客的話不值得信和參考.也就是說只有你的話是真.你是理智的.而卻你很直帥的人.還是那句,信部信一缺隨緣.
過客

 
On 22/10/07 10:37 PM , Nameless said...

Haha, I think you think too much...there are always 2 sides to everyone of us...one that we are open enough to reveal to friends and colleagues face to face, and the intimate side of us that we don't reveal so easily. Most of the time it is thru writing/journaling/art that these innermost thoughts and emotions are expressed. - HH