午饭。

老友说现实生活他们不见部落格中的我。

没想到，老友正从我的文字，勾勒另一个我。

我们五人做了性格分析测验。

理性、系统化、逻辑思考，这是对我的结论。

完全符合从事财务工作的形象，却和文字中的我有所出入。

朋友说，这两个我，相差十万八千里。

太过“个人”，有些 skeptical，朋友这样形容。

我也不知道这两个我，怎能共存一体，或许我早性格分裂。

理性的浪漫，我想我只能形容这样的自己。





得尔

PS：

10 月 21 日
有心的朋友，通过电邮，发了性格分析结果给我：

"TRIM" Character:

Summary Report

You tend to be a very organized, structured, and task-focused individual. You prefer to have a lot of supportive details in the work you do, and you want to get a definite result by a specified deadline, whether working with tasks or people. In fact, you get frustrated if people change directions on you suddenly or don't follow-up with you on a timely basis.

It's important that you have a big-picture vision of a process or task, and you prefer to take minimal risk. Indeed, projects you work on or decisions you make need to offer some guarantee of economic security.

People who are impulsive and illogical in their choices tend to put pressure on you. And you likely feel irritated and take a step or two backward upon encountering a hard-charging salesperson, phone solicitor, or non-profit organization that you feel is trying to manipulate or pressure you into a purchase or donation.

You care about people, but most of the time they do not get your heart or trust until they prove themselves worthy, demonstrate their claims, and support their facts. They also need to follow-up on a timely basis and deliver on their commitments. If they can’t do those things to your satisfaction, you have no trouble saying "no" and setting boundaries on your time, money, and relationships.

In managing your personal finances, you tend to be good with check books and budgets. Having said that, financial planning and working with numbers is not necessarily a fun exercise for you. Rather, it's a necessary task.

Living a healthy lifestyle is important to you, even if you "fall off the wagon" occasionally with a high-fat/high-carb meal. However, your dedication to task and structure place you at risk for workaholism, and you also need to manage your stress when others disappoint you.