Author: de-er
•Wednesday, March 26, 2008
人生若只如初见,
何事秋风悲画扇?
等闲变却故人心,
却道故人心易变。


读到清代纳兰性德的《木兰词 拟古决绝词柬友》,只觉说的真好。

人与人之间初遇时,一切都是美好的。就算有不足不如意的地方,两人都愿意消受。

但日子一久,龃龉增加,就越看对方不顺眼,连一点小事,都能鸡蛋里挑骨头。

还不如回到当初。

我不觉得写的感伤,只觉写的现实,一针见血。

世事如幻,如海市蜃楼,过眼云烟。

或许只要明白其规律,凡事就能看开些。





得尔
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1 comments:

On 26/3/08 9:49 PM , chin said...

其實看開了,接受了,也就會歡喜過日子了!